Heigh Ho, Heigh Ho, it’s off to dinner we go….and next time, not for the Food


By now, you’ve heard of Disney’s new Character Dining: Storybook Dining at Artist Point with Snow White.  And I have to admit, when I heard that Disney was doing this, my initial reaction was surprised.  Artist Point (pre Snow White) was one of Disney World’s fine dining destinations that, unfortunately, I never got to experience.  But ask anyone who has, Artist Point was wonderful.  Whether you were looking for a nice steak or some wonderful seafood, Artist Point was a (fancy) staple for many.

But look, I said I was surprised when I heard of the change, not immediately depressed.  Sure, Disney decided to get rid of fancy luxury, but in return, we got Snow White, Dopey, Grumpy and the Evil Queen!  Maybe not fancy luxury, BUT DOPEY AND GRUMPY!  Sure, there are other places you can see Snow White while visiting Disney World, but other than the Halloween and Christmas Parties, I’m not aware of any place in Disney World were you can see any of the seven dwarfs!  And throw in the Evil Queen and its a Character Dining experience unlike any other!

So you better believe on our recent stay at Fort Wilderness Lodge, we made reservations to check out this new dining adventure.  Me, my wife and the girls (3 yr old and infant).  And like with every meal, I could not wait to try the food!  Admittedly, I searched the menu and some reviews prior to dining, and I was extremely excited to try all the food.

The price is steep. Adults (ages 10+) $55.00, children (ages 3-9) $33.00 .  If you are on the dining plan, one (1) Disney Dining Plan Entitlement per Adult/Child.  So having to fork over $33.00 for my 3 year old who, absent being covered in chocolate, takes two bites of her food and wants to go play, I wasn’t super thrilled.  But hey I convinced myself as I normally do: we are at Disney, its going to be magical, the food will be great.  Weeellllll, the food was anything but great.

The way it works is pretty straight forward.  Every table will get appetizers to share (3 different items) AND desserts (4 different desserts) to share.  All you have to do is choose your entrée.  Pretty simple and truly, you do get a lot of food.  But perhaps a lot of food is meaningless, if it is not very good.

The Shared Appetizers are: Winter Squash Bisque (Caramel Loli, Granola); Wicked Shrimp Cocktail (Soy, Miso, Avocado, Thai Chili, Greens); Hunter’s Pie (Chicken, Black Truffle, Stone Fruit Preserve)

I told you, you get a ton of food!  My 3 year old even got her own little appetizer, with some carrots, cheese, fruit, and a biscuit that came with her own honey butter that she got to make herself by shaking:


But here’s the deal; a lot of food isn’t what anyone is really expecting with this experience; or at least I was not.  If you want to make it a Buffett like many of the other Character Dining experiences, go for it.  But if it’s going to be a seated meal, it increases the expectations that the food will be…better than a buffet?  Am I wrong?  The Bisque, while it had decent flavor, was extremely cold.  The Hunter’s Pie was essentially an extremely dry meatball wrapped in a pie crust, that the stone fruit preserve simply could not save (I tried). And the Shrimp…what can I say?  Just a cold piece of shrimp with very subtle flavor.  High expectations?  Perhaps.  But the appetizers are a huge miss.  Quite frankly, I’m not sure how this selection of food appeals to the everyday diner.  I’ll eat anything, but I saw tables around us taking bites of their appetizers and putting them down.

Surely the entrees will be better.  Each diner gets to chose one of the following:

Entrées (Choose one (1) Entrée)

  • Seafood Stew (Shrimp, Bay Scallops, Mussels, Tomato, Fennel)
  • A Stroll through Nature (Butternut Squash, Arugula, Gnocchi, Sage, Parmesan)
  • Brother’s Grimm Roasted Chicken (Confit Potatoes, Roasted Brussels Sprouts, Apples, and Chestnut Butter)
  • Magic Mirror Slow-braised Veal Shank (Celery Root Mashed, Wilted Winter Greens, Jus)
  • Bashful’s Butter-poached Snapper (Root Vegetable Risotto, Wild Mushroom, Citrus- Butter Sauce)
  • Royal Prime Rib Roast (Horseradish Mashed Potato, Hay-smoked Carrots, Popover, Jus)

I was excited.  I was between the Veal Shank and Rib Roast, but opted for the Veal Shank  simply as a result of “”Eeny, meeny, miny, moe”.  My wife Ordered “A Stroll through Nature”.

These dishes were better than the appetizers, but only slightly.  Flavors were great for both dishes; but again, the gnocchi was cold and missing that texture that I’ve come to expect with gnocchi.  Whether its finished under a broiler with a sprinkling of cheese or placed in a pan with some butter to give a little crunch, I’ve come to enjoy gnocchi more when it has some crunch/texture to it.  I get it, the gnocchi should be tender and cooked and this gnocchi was tender and cooked; but it was just one note all the way through with the butternut squash.  The Veal Shank- yes, it was fall of the bone and the veal itself was delicious.  But the celery root mash absolutely killed this dish.  The mash was cold and lumpy; missing that smooth richness.  After two bites of the mash, I was done with it.

My daughter ordered her $33 Princess Pasta with cheese sauce.  Was this fancy mac and cheese worth $33; not even close- but she likes her mac and cheese and that’s what she wanted.

The lack of “finish” on the dishes presented to us was evident. Cold food that lacks flavor.  To me, this is the result of trying to do fine dining en masse.  It’s clear that the menu was designed so that the food can be plated and sent out.  Nothing appears to be cooked to order.  

During dinner, I ordered a cocktail:  The Smoking Mirror (Johnnie Walker Black, Wildberry, Lime, Rosemary Smoke).  Fun little presentation, tasty drink; not nearly enough 🙂

The Desserts, like the Appetizers, are shared for the table.  The desserts were playful and fit the overall theme very nicely:

  • Miner’s Treasures (Sponge Cake, Chocolate Gems, and Buttercream Icing),
  • Fairy Tale Gooseberry Pie (Meringue, Gooseberry),
  • “Poison” Apple (White Chocolate-Apple Mousse, Sour Center)

The family favorite, hands down, was the Poison Apple.  It’s beautiful and tasted amazing!  The meringue on the Gooseberry Pie was delicious. And who doesn’t like cake, with buttercream icing and fun little chocolate gems.  The desserts were the best thing we ate the entire evening.

Right when you are finishing your dining experience, your server will bring “The Hunter’s Gift to the Queen” which is Crackled Maple Popcorn with a Ganache Heart.  Very nice presentation to end the meal; which of course, I forgot to take a picture of!

Now you are likely asking yourself, why did Pete say “next time”… sounds like the food would not be worth it?  Remember, DOPEY, GRUMPY, EVIL QUEEN, SNOW WHITE?! I mean, let’s be real, the 4 main reasons you make reservations is to see these characters.  And with two young kids and a wife who absolutely loves Disney as much as I do, meeting these characters is THE reason for this experience.  My 10 month old absolutely loved Dopey!  So much so, he came back to our table just to interact with her for a few minutes… I guess he liked her too 🙂


Here are a few more pics of all the fun we had with the Characters:

I hope you do give this place a try, and form your own opinions.  But for us, its the moments captured with the characters that will bring us back…not the food.

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Let me Upgrade you…Club Level Grand Floridian Resort and Spa

There are so many reasons why you should splurge and upgrade to Club Level the next time you stay at Disney’s Grand Floridian Resort and Spa.  At this resort, there are two different Club Levels; the outer building (Sugar Loaf Club Level) and main building.

And while I can rant about how awesome it is to stay in the main building at this resort, if you’ve been here, you know how magnificent it is.  The smell, décor, atmosphere; I mean, really, what’s not to like? But this post is to simply share some pictures of the great food I had while staying in the Main Building on a recent trip.  In a future post, I will get into more detail; but for now, enjoy!

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BBQ Pork and Pepperdew Tart

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2018 Epcot Food and Wine Festival


Yes,  Fall has arrived.  In Florida many say that means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! Yes, we are experiencing record highs in the middle of October.  Yes, AC companies are seeing record profits.  And while it is true that there are no seasons in Florida but the season of HOT, what is also true is that I love to eat. And about this time every year, I get as giddy as Winnie the Pooh in a tub of honey.  Why, because it’s Epcot Food and Wine time!

Epcot’s Food and Wine Festival is, well you guessed it, a food festival at Epcot.  Just when you thought Disney World could not get any more magical!  Since 1995, Epcot has been holding this event, and every year it seems to be getting better.  More food options, different dining experiences, and even things for the kiddos.  Visit Disney’s website for a list of all the need-to-knows.

But I did not want to write a blog post about everything you need to know before you go to the Food Festival.  That would take forever, and honestly, no one does a better job explaining all that than Disney or the folks behind the Disney Food Blog.  Instead, I wanted to share my “Hits, Misses, and Must Tries” based on my recent visits (yes multiple visits).


A hit to me is something that was really good and I’m glad I tried it.  What distinguishes it from a “Must Try” is that while it was delicious, I probably would spend my money trying something else before ordering it again; while a “Must Try” is something I would order twice during a single visit.

My First Hit is the New Brunswick Slider at the Hops and Barley Marketplace.  Slow braised beef brisket, topped with a horseradish cream and crispy fried onion; all served on a potato roll with the most wonderful side of pickled vegetables.  The acidity of the vegetables cuts through the welcomed fattiness of the brisket, making this slider a surprisingly two bite hit.

New Brunswick Slider 

My runner up under the “Hits” was the Carbonade de Boeuf, Purée de Pommes de Terre –   located in the France Marketplace, this beer braised beef, with bacon, dish was the most tender piece of meat I had all day.  And I will be honest, I’m not typically a fan of the dishes that come out of this marketplace, but this year, France found a way to my heart… through my mouth, as the beef simply melted away.  Served over some onion and mashed potatoes, it brings the feeling of comfort; almost like a French grandmother peeled potatoes and worked on this dish all morning for your pleasure.       

Carbonade de Boeuf, Purée de Pommes de Terre 

Some other notable Hits, not pictured by definitely worth the bite: 

  • In the Thailand Marketplace: The Red Hot Spicy Thai Curry Beef with Steamed Rice 
  • In the Africa Marketplace:  The Berbere-style Beef Tenderloin tips with Onions, jalapenos, tomatoes and pap


Let me first start by saying that identifying anything at Walt Disney World as a MISS brings me extreme heartache and pain.  For those of you who know me, and follow my crazy adventures with my daughters on Instagram, you know I love Disney.  I love this festival.  I love food.  I love eating all the food at this festival!  But with all the amazing food this festival has to offer, I simply offer an opinion as to what I think you can…maybe skip and try something else

BIGGEST MISS:  The Entire Ireland Marketplace (while I cringe typing this).  Yes, they have a Guinness you can order (and I LOVE Guinness), but the other dishes were simply unremarkable to me.  

The Warm Irish Cheddar Cheese and Stout Dip with Irish Brown Bread was boring.  Taste was ookkaayy, but the cheese and stout dip was runny and the bread was nothing special.  If you are looking for a warm cheese soup-like dish that is good, check out Canada’s cheese soup; but this one.. skip it.

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Warm Irish Cheese and Stout Dip with Irish Brown Bread

And then the dessert.  I love my sweets.  I eat tons of sweets.  And for whatever reason, I had huge expectations for the Warm Chocolate Pudding with Irish Cream Liqueur Custard.  And while it was warm, it was bland.  The Irish Cream liqueur was overpowering and took over the dish.  It almost seemed like I was eating a fudgy brownie while taking a shot of Baileys.  And compared to the other desserts available at the festival…skip this one.

Warm Chocolate Pudding with Irish Cream Liqueur Custard

Another MISS for me was the Cannoli at the Marketplace in Italy.  As described, it is a Cannoli filled with sweet Ricotta, Chocolate and Candied Fruit.  Why it’s a miss for me?  Compared to other dishes, this one seemed extremely small.  The flavor of the filling was okay, but the Cannoli shell was a bit soggy; likely from being filled with the Ricotta and kept cold for a period of time prior to me eating it.  In prior years, the Cannoli was one of the favorites, so I think with high expectations, this years version let me down.




If you are going to the Food and Wine Festival and want to try just a few things, there are absolutely two things you MUST TRY in my opinion.  


Le Cellier Wild Mushroom Beef Filet Mignon with Truffle-Butter Sauce.  I mean honestly, if the name alone does not make your heart start pounding a little faster and your mouth water a little more, you simply aren’t living your BEST LIFE!  Filet so tender that you barely have to chew.  The earthiness of the mushroom enhances the wonderful beef flavor.  And to top it with the beautiful Truffle-Butter Sauce, adding the slightest touch of richness; bring your dancing shoes because your Happy Dance will be center stage.  What is much appreciated about this dish, is that it is consistently great every year.  For as long as I can remember (recent memory that is), the marketplace in Canada has been serving this dish during the festival.  And if you can’t make it to the Festival, the next time you visit Epcot, make a reservation at Le Cellier Steakhouse and try it there!

Wild Mushroom Beef Filet Mignon with Truffle-Butter Sauce

And boy do I have good news for you!  After you try the filet, head on over to France and order dessert.  Yes, my next MUST TRY recommendation is the Crème Brulee with House-Made Raspberry Jam.  Why even explain this wonderful treat when you can see it right here for yourself:

Yes….you are certainly welcome!

The Festival is tons of fun, and I am extremely lucky to have the opportunity to go more than once.  But whether you go once or everyday (why are we not friends?!), just have fun!  Everyone has a different palette; some people are meat eaters; some people like savory food while others like sweet.  Just do you, walk around, have a good time.  Here are some other tips to consider before you go:

  1. If you look anything close to 21 years old, make sure you bring your ID if you plan on drinking.  They do check IDs
  2. Hit the More popular spots first.  In my opinion, Mexico and Canada tend to be two of the busier areas.  Get there early, start with one of those marketplaces, and you won’t have to deal with huge crowds
  3. If you have saved up for this event but do not want to bring cash, put the money on a Disney Gift Card.  All marketplaces accept Disney Gift Cards.  Instead of walking with tons of cash, just put your ID and gift card in your pocket (of course, assuming you are not staying on Disney property, then just pay with your magic band)
  4. Go with friends and try not to purchase the same thing at the marketplace.  When everyone buys something different, you are able to try different things from each place.  I know, Genius!

There is so much to see, eat, drink and do at the 2018 Epcot Food and Wine Festival. If you haven’t gone yet, hurry up and go.  The last day is November 12, 2018! Explore.  Travel the world through Good Eats.  And have a good time.  I leave you with some more pictures of  delicious food.  Cheers!

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Welcome to Neenah!


Neenah, Wisconsin. Small town America.  Where citizens leave their keys in the car and front doors unlocked.  A town well know for making manhole covers found all over America.  And the town where one of my best friends was getting married and I got to officiate the wedding!

The closest airport to Neenah is located in nearby Appleton, where in the terminal, you have the opportunity to work on your ping-pong game right when you get off the plane!

Ping Pong Table in the Airport

And while I was extremely excited to officiate my good friend’s wedding, I was just as excited at the opportunity to appreciate small town America.  Look, Tampa is no New York City, but there is nothing small town about it.  So having the opportunity to visit a place where, literally, everyone knows everyone was very exciting.  When visiting a place, where the thing to do on a Friday night is hang out at the local Dairy Queen, you internally begin to reflect on your life.  Here’s what I mean.  How many times have we worried about what were are going to do this weekendWhen is the last time you left your front door unlocked, trusting your neighbors and community that no harm will be done to you, your family or any of your possessions?

It just seems that in these small towns, there is a great sense of “community” rather than “identity”; living “simple” instead of “grand”.  When I visited Simons Specialty Cheese, because I just HAD to get my hands on a fresh cheese curd, you should have seen how nice the ladies in the store were.  The second I said we were from Florida, one of the sweetest ladies ever stopped everything she was doing and gave me and my buddies a tour of the entire store, all the different cheeses and even opened several cheeses for us to try.  Sure, there are millions of nice people out there, but this was more than being nice.  It was her way of life; her norm.  She had no pride in doing this for us; this was the way she lived.  It made me hope that I can “go out of my way” more for others…without it feeling like I’m “going out of my way” to do it.

Dare I mention this place and not mention the cheese!  You want the squeaky curd experience, go here.  You want to taste freshly made chocolate cheese, go here.  You want to purchase a gallon milk in a glass bottle for $2.50, be able to return the glass when you are finished and get a $1.00 back, go here.  I gained 7 lbs on this 3 day trip–yea, I’m not proud of it.  But it was all worth it.  If you want to see some more of the awesome eats I had during my trip, check these pictures out.

I BET you didn’t know that Neenah also has a Statute of Liberty replica looking over it’s downtown!  It’s 10% of the size of the original and was given as a gift to the community by businessman John Bergstrom.  Pretty cool gift!


In addition to checking out Simons, here are My THREE PLACES “Worth the Visit” while in  NEENAH/APPLETON

Coffee Shop:  Check out Tempest Coffee Collective order the Maple Waffle, your go to coffee and send me a Thank you!  

Restaurant for dinnerTown Council Kitchen and Bar.  the locals will tell you this is not traditional Neenah, Wisconsin dining, but it doesn’t stop them from going!  The place was packed.  We had a big group and ordered several cold and hot appetizers and shared family style.  If you want to try and little bit of everything, this is the way to go.  Don’t forget to check out the pictures in the link above to see some of the delicisiouness!

BarLions Tail Brewery Co. and Tap Room Bar games √ Located in a refurbished bank and with a room that was once used as a vault √ Great Drinks √

That feeling of community is all over Neenah.  From the small mom and pop shops, to the friendly faces… even as a guest, you simply feel loved.  And what better place to have a beautiful wedding; celebrating two amazing people and their commitment to one another…unconditional love.

Maybe the next time you are planning a weekend getaway you give a small town a thought…heck Neenah, Wisconsin would love to have you.

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Trip to Neenah, Wisconsin

Just a few of the many Good Eats Neenah/Appleton Wisconsin had to offer!


Be sure to check out my Yelp Page for my Reviews of the all the Eats during my trip to Wisconsin! Want to see more Foodie Pics, follow me on Instagram @outnumberedfather and like the Facebook Page http://www.facebook.com/outnumberedfather. 

The FOUR Words Every Parent Should Love to Hear from Their Little One

Yes, you read it right, the FOUR words.  And you may be saying “Pete, ‘I love you’ is only THREE words…hopefully your poor kid doesn’t take after your math skills!”  Look, you and I both hope my kids don’t take after my math skills.  And like any parent, hearing “I love you” come out of my little one’s mouth makes me melt like a Hershey Bar on the Las Vegas Strip in the middle of July.  She tells me that she loves me in her little toddler voice, and I just hand her my wallet and anything else I own… seriously, with two daughters, this is going to go really well for me 🙂

But the words that I absolute LOVE hearing from my little one are Daddy/Mommy “I want to help”.  My little one is at the stage now where she understands so much and recognizes when mommy and daddy have to do things that otherwise take away our attention from her.

As this Baby Center Article states, between the ages 2 and 3, a child begins to comprehend the more complicated aspects of life and gains a deeper understanding of how she should treat people.  So when my little one sees that mommy and daddy are doing housework, caring for her little sister, or walking the dogs, the idea that she says “I want to help” makes me happy.  I’m beginning to see the development of a kind hearted, helpful, unselfish person.  And truth be told, the idea that my daughter is shaping up to be a beautiful person makes me, perhaps selfishly, believe that my wife and I are doing parenting right.

I get it, sometimes their idea of “help” really delays the process of what you are trying to accomplish; maybe even gets you a little frustrated.  But as a dad, after my frustration settles, I tend to just laugh.  I laugh at the fact that my toddler got me “frustrated” because she was trying to “help” me.  And for those who have older children, teenagers, or adult children- I’m sure you are nodding your head and saying that you’d take this type of “frustration” over what comes about in your child’s later stages of life.

Yes, “I love you” will always be my daughters’ way to my heart and checkbook, but if the goal as a parent is to do everything you can to raise a wonderful human being- one that is helpful to others, kind to others, puts others first before him/her, is respectful of others, and grows to be a leader- then yea, hearing my 3 year old say ” I want to help” is music to my ears!


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Going Out to Dinner; Oh, and My Toddler and Infant are Coming Too

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As summer comes close to an end and the school year quickly approaches, every parent is wondering the same thing….”Will the video of my happy dance, as my kid boards the school bus, break the internet?” While some videos will, most parents have a better chance of breaking a hip!  But in all seriousness, there are a million things parents begin to think of as the school year approaches; if you have more than one kid, the list is even longer.  The good news is that there is a ton of very good advice out there that can help the overwhelmed parent.  If your are looking for some great advice on meal planning, saving some dollars or an awesome Back to School Breakfast idea, check out this Eat Drink and Save Money Blog Post.  It’s super easy, quick, and you AND the kids will love it.

And while planning every meal is without a doubt going to help reduce your stress levels, sometimes there is nothing more you want to do then go out to eat.  I get it.  All the time you spent planning every meal, for the entire week has led to the day where you would like to sit and have someone else cook you dinner.  I know what you’re thinking- I’ll just order takeout. We can’t go out with the toddler. We will never eat. It’s just a waste of money because my kid never eats what we order for them and only wants to eat our food.  These are all very legit thoughts.  But if you are anything like me and enjoy dining out, hopefully by the end of this post, you put your worries aside and take the entire family, TODDLER AND LITTLE ONE TOO, to the hot new dining spot in your city…carefree.

Try Brunch 

You’ve already planned for most of the week, right? I’m not here to tell you to throw away all that hard work; but now that it’s the weekend, this is the chance to dine out and what better way than hitting up a Brunch spot.  Bruch is  perfect. You get the best of breakfast and lunch!  If your toddler is a picky eater, brunch offers you more options.  I mean, how many times have you tried to go to dinner only for your toddler to tell you they want pancakes!

What’s also great about Brunch is that many of the nicer places you would want to go for dinner will likely offer Brunch during the weekends.  So what better way to try the new hot spot?  And as if you did not already know, Brunch is generally  cheaper than adult dinner entrée options.

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Our Little One Got all Fancy for Brunch at Marchand’s Bar, located in the Vinoy Resort in St. Pete, Fl

DAD ADVICE 1– if you can, ask for seating outside.  As parents, we know for sure that our toddlers and children leave a mess.  Somehow, every child between the ages of 2 and 6 is wired the same way- 1/4 of the food in the mouth and 3/4ths of the food on the floor, on their clothes, on your clothes, on another diner!  Eating outdoors, at the very least, means the kid can be a little louder and a little messier without so much worry.  I’m not saying you still shouldn’t pick up after your toddler– PLEASE PICK UP AFTER YOUR TODDLER; but compared to chocolate milk all over the nice table cloth or carpets inside,  chocolate milk on the outdoor floors and tables won’t be so bad.  Hell, you may have a better view outside too!

 You’ve Got 99 Toddler Problems… Money Dining Out With Your Little One Shouldn’t Be One

So maybe you’re weekends are busier than your weekdays.  Now a days, that is definitely true.  Swim practice, soccer practice, birthday parties, church— I mean the weekend event list is HUGE.  So maybe trying a “dine out night out” during the week is a better option.  You may end up saving even more money going this route because of the different options/specials restaurants offer during the week that they do not offer on weekends!

First– several restaurants always have a day when they are running a kids eat free deal.  Sometimes, no adult purchase is necessary, while other times it is.  Check your local restaurants to see what kids eat free options are available since they do change.  If you are ever in the New Tampa/Wesley Chapel area, Union 72 (one of my favorite BBQ places) has been offering a kids eat free special on Tuesday evenings!


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… no, I’m not suggesting you go get hammered and bring your toddler or infant with you.  But if you haven’t heard, Happy Hour is no longer specials on drinks only; many places now offer several food selections on a Happy Hour Menu.  It will be cheaper and just as good as if you order it any other time.  Happy Hour is also NO LONGER ONE HOUR.  It seems that some places offer Happy Hour for a few hours if not for most of the day.

Third– So you can’t make it on a day where kids eat free OR during Happy Hour.  Maybe the restaurant that you want to try doesn’t offer either of these things- well aren’t you FANCY!  But that’s okay.  Now, many fancy restaurants offer “snack plates” or “small plates”.  Let me tell you about these “snack plate” “small plate” options.  You are not getting a plate full of Cheetos.  You get very good food at a very reasonable price.  Don’t believe me, check out the menu at Haven in Tampa, Florida. And if you didn’t know, Haven is one of the Bern’s Steakhouse Company dining locations- and if you haven’t heard of Bern’s Steakhouse in Tampa, contact me immediately, we will make dinner reservations and you can thank me later 🙂

DAD ADVICE 2– don’t forget about appetizers and sides.  If your toddler is a mac and cheese eater, skip the kid’s meal option and order the side option!  Does your kid like chicken tenders but never finishes an entire kids meal?   Maybe ordering the appetizer option of tenders is the better route; at least you can have some too!.  Better yet, some of these options will be an awesome way to sneak in vegies!  With restaurants serving things like Buffalo Cauliflower or avocado fries, it makes it much easier for a kid to eat their veggies (maybe ask for the buffalo sauce on the side).  The take away- we sometimes overlook appetizers and sides as kid entrée substitutes.  Don’t make that mistake!

It is More Important Than You Think

This, to me, is the most important thing to remember.  There are tons of studies about the benefits of eating with your children, especially at a young age.  This Washington Post Article does a good job discussing the studies and health benefits.  But to me, it is much simpler than that: its getting to spend time with your little one before they grow up and it becomes “embarrassing”.  It’s experiencing that time of surprise/happiness when your little one eats an entire cup of German Sauerkraut Soup (yes, my toddler did this when she was a little over 1).  Our children will always surprise us; often times in positive ways that we didn’t think would happen.

Dine out, eat with your toddlers and little ones.. it won’t be the end of the world.  Heck, you all may end up with a full belly and happy!

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My Promise

I sit here on the heels of reading this Miami Herald article about a male lawyer, in Florida, objecting to a female lawyer’s request to continue an upcoming trial due to a pregnancy.  Feel free to read the article and form your own opinions as I don’t want to make this a post about my (very strong) opinions on this particular situation.  But it made me think; as a father, raising two beautiful, lively, full of potential young girls, am I doing the right thing to pave the way for opportunity and change for them; so that they do not have to encounter similar issues when they grow up and choose to have families of their own? My gut reaction is to say that I am; but when things like this continue to occur, I feel like I’m not.  I’m not doing enough.  We know the saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”.  But when you feel like you are, and the world isn’t changing; what are we left to do?  What are the options?  I started this blog out of the joy and love I have for my family, to share the stories, fun and journey of feeling like an #outnumberedfather in a house full of women.   And as I meet more of you through this journey, I realize there are so many fathers and mothers out there doing their DAMN BEST to raise strong, powerful women.  And so I have hope.  I have hope that these strong fathers and mothers will continue to encourage these young women to do what they want in life; to be their own person; to work hard and never accept defeat.  As I continue to strive to be the change I want to see in the world, I honor my sweet girls by saying:

I Promise you that I will Love You Unconditionally, Support You and be there for you every step of the way.

I promise that when you feel you can’t, I will encourage you and remind you that you can.

I promise that when you are sad, I will tell a horrible dad joke to make you smile.

I promise that when you feel weak, I will remind you that your heart is your strongest muscle and you can move any mountain.

I promise when you feel you don’t know, take a minute, breathe and remember your mind is your most powerful resource to resolve all problems.

You are not weaker because of your gender. You are not limited in your abilities.  You are strong, powerful, capable, courageous, and beautiful.  Dare to dream.  Dream Big.  Never Give Up.  You will overcome all unnecessary obstacles.   I promise you.


Whether you are a new parent or savvy veteran; a mom or dad; have daughters or sons, join me in setting the example and encouraging them that anything is possible.  That everyone deserves respect.  That we don’t treat people differently because they are female, male, gay, straight, black or white.   Make your own promise, pledge or vow. Let’s be the change and set the example… well, so that we don’t see situations of another attorney objecting to a pregnant female attorney’s request for a continuance.

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Don’t Forget the Diapers DAD! The Do’s and Dont’s of Traveling with Young Kids

Yes, the day finally arrived.  We were going on our first weekend getaway as a family of four to Daytona Beach, Florida.  Home of Nascar’s “Super bowl”.  Once referred to as the “World’s Most Famous Beach”.  Where Bikers from around the country congregate for a week of drinking up and down Main Street and Coleslaw Wrestling at the famous Cabbage Patch Bar (don’t believe me, see for yourself:                                               http://cabbagepatchbar.com/#events).  Where, in the late 80s and earlier 90s, MTV introduced the world to what college co-eds really do on Spring Break. But perhaps most importantly, where yours truly grew up.

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I haven’t lived in Daytona since leaving for college (Go Gators!).  Going back to the city you grew up in always brings back memories; some good, some just plain awful.  We were excited to spend the weekend at the beach.  Much to my surprise, a Hard Rock Hotel was a hotel option.  For those who have been to Daytona, you know the hotel options are pretty limited if you are looking for something on the beach, clean, and void of that musty, natty lite stench.  Don’t get me wrong, if this is a guys trip with The Posse during the second week of March, circa 1990 something, all those things are a must.  But this trip was different.  My 3 month old was getting baptized and we wanted to be surrounded by friends and family.  We wanted some place for my 3 year old to have a good time; pool, splash pad-you get the idea.  So we packed our bags, loaded the Pilot and began the….LONGEST trip, to Daytona Beach.

Typically, it would take us 2-2.5 hrs to get from the Tampa area to Daytona.  Not this trip.  Nearly 4.5 hours!  “Leave early”, she said; “we can beat traffic”.  I mean, simply thinking that we were going to beat traffic was cursing us from the beginning; but with a toddler and a newborn?  Who were we kidding.  If you have kids, you know that everything takes substantially longer.  You want to brush your teeth? Add 5 minutes. Leave the house to go anywhere..thats an hour.  So, why would I think this trip was going to be any quicker?  But here’s the deal, I can’t blame my kids entirely; hell- I don’t blame them at all. I certainly did not help the situation.  And for those who know me, you know that I value my time and take being on time very seriously.  “When you’re early, you’re on time, when you’re on time, your late!”  Words I try and live by, give it a shot.

But, now with two kids, everything is just a little longer, harder, slower.  With one kid potty training and the other just pottying when she feels like it, I thought I’d share a couple of “First Trip Do’s and Don’ts” in hopes that you find some comfort in knowing you’re not alone AND perhaps it becomes useful advice for your future trips.

DO #1.  Pack throughout the week and try and get your kids things packed first.  By now, your parents, wife’s parents, friends, neighbors, second cousin twice removed sister-in law have all bought your kids more clothes than they will ever need.  So there is no reason why the weekend before the trip, the kids bags are not fully packed with clothes without getting into what they would need for the week.  Leave the last minute packing for your things.

DONT #1 Don’t forget the diapers DAD!  I mean for crying out loud, this should be the first thing we reach for when we start packing for our child that still uses diapers.  And in my defense, I had the diapers ready to go.  All 60, unopened size 2 diapers.  PROBLEM?  They were 60, unopened, size two diapers- so of course, they wouldn’t fit in the bag with the clothes, so I had them sitting next to the bag… I think.  Either way, YES I forgot my newborn’s diapers at home. So, don’t pull a Pete and forget your kid’s diapers at home.  And IF you do (haha), DON’T sweat it.  Everywhere sells diapers and you can pick them up anywhere- which is what we ended up doing on the way to Daytona (adding to the travel time) when it began to sound like my kid was going to unleash the beast that lives within her!   But if you ask my wife, the look on my face walking out of a Walmart, somewhere in Orlando, with a box of diapers and a Monster Energy drink, provided her with a much needed chuckle.

DO #2 If you are driving, be prepared to stop….several times.  The fact of the matter is the days are gone where your road tripping solo or with your buddies and can make “good time”.  I’m not saying it’s impossible, but with two young kids, they will be hungry and need to use the potty, multiple times…never at the same time.  You will soon realize that this is not a “vacation” but more like a “test-your-patience” trip.  But being prepared may level your expectations a bit.  Bring some small snacks and maybe a tablet/IPad for the older kids to watch a movie/play games.  My go to snacks for my toddler are granola bars and yogurt pouches.  Grab a granola bar that may have some chocolate chips, and they will love you even more.

DON’T #2 Do not forget about naptime.  I get it, much easier said then done; especially when the kids are having tons of fun.  But if the kids generally take naps during the day at daycare or at home, you’ll be throwing off weeks, if not months, of hard work getting them on that routine.  I’m certainly not an expert on getting kids to take a nap; let alone getting them to nap while on vacation.  There are several articles online about this issue and I invite you to google the “how to” part.  My simple thoughts: keep the nap schedule as close to when they actually nap while not on vacation and use this as an excuse to splurge a bit for a bigger room that may have a separate living area; that way, the adults can still have a good time.  On this trip, well I’m sure you can guess…my toddler decided she was going to finally nap 10 minutes before our dinner reservation with the rest of our family…guess how it went getting her up?!

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CURVE BALL  By now you know that things are going to happen that you did not plan for.  It happens every day, kids or not.  But when it happens on vacation, involving the kids, it becomes a bigger hurdle to clear.  So, when your newborn has a blowout in her new bathing suit, while sitting in her car seat, an hour before dinner, THAT is a big hurdle.  Yes, that happened; Yes, it got all over her bathing suit; Yes, it got all over her car seat.  Do you think I planned for this to happen?  I’m the guy that forgot the diapers, remember?!  BUT, at the end of the day, we can let this ruin the rest of the day, or deal with it the best you can.  In this case, I borrowed the Lysol spray from the housekeeping cart, sprayed the car seat cover down, gave it a little shower and used the blow dryer to speed up the drying process.  

Going on vacation with young kids, in our case a 3 year old and 3 month old, is hard; but it can be done!  Hopefully some of the Do’s and Don’ts can help you with your next trip.  If you’re reading this and thinking, “my wife does all the planning, I’m never going to worry about this stuff”… well, maybe the next trip, you take on more of the planning duties?  Who knows, the wife may recognize your hard work and extra effort and vacation may be a little nicer for ya if you catch my drift…. If that is not convincing, forward this blog post to your wife!

There will be times during your vacation that you need that daddy juice because the vacation is getting the best of you and you’re feeling a bit #outnumbered; definitely take a minute and enjoy yourself.. I did

Hopefully by the end of your next trip, you and your family are all smiles and you’ve created some unforgettable memories!

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Have any Do’s and Don’ts you would like to share, please feel free to share you story in the comment section below.

Want to know my thoughts on the new Hard Rock Hotel, check out my review on yelp (link on the homepage).  There you will see some additional photos of the Hard Rock.

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